i have joined a new group. you shall see it in my friends if you wish. it is to do 101 things in 1001 days so finshes in 2011 sometime, i was thinking today about making positive changes rather than stupid resolutions so this could be a good thing.
i've not thought of 101 things currently but we'll make a start i think.

Culture
1.Stop reading women's lifestyle magazines
2. Get a tattoo
3. Take a picture everyday
4. Choose a book based purely on the cover 
5. Read for pleasure again
6. Write down books that I've read to jog my memory in instances where bookishness is completely desirable
7. Visit muesums and art galleries and the like
8.Have a drink by myself in a bar i've never been in
9. Join a new uni society
10. Go to live gigs, on my own if i have to
11. listen to music i've never heard of

Having a positive impact on life
12. Give blood, often.
13. Sign up to the organ donor list
14. Go to church once in a while
15. Remember to send thank you cards
16. Volunteer for a charity in some shape or form.


Self fulfilment
17. Make impossible plans to go travelling
18. Write poetry, no matter how lame
19. Take someone special to watch the sunrise in the fields near uni and take a breakfast picnic
20. No longer keep myself in situations where i'm unhappy, just to make others happy
21. Kiss a new boy
22. Kiss a new girl.
23. Stop blending my sexuality to fit in with whichever group i'm in
24. Be naked more often
25. Apply for a job I've no chance of getting
26. Don't be embarrassed by my sexuality anymore
27. Write a song, not just lyrics.
28. Take someone special to watch the sunrise in the fields near uni and take a breakfast picnic
29. Chat up a total stranger

Things to aim for
30. Try for a first in my degree, and really try, go to lectures and everything.
31. Don't turn on my laptop for a calender month (0/31)
32. Learn how to spell again and stop relying on spellcheck
33. Lose my hetro virginity
34. Have a one night stand
35. Make the first move
36. Only wear expensive gorgeous underwear for a calender month (0/31)
37. Get up at 8am for a calender month (0/31)
38. Stay up all night for a calender month (0/31)
39. Live in a brand new city where I know no-one
40. Love myself, eat healthily, don't diet and stop caring
41. Say yes, yes yes yes more often
42. Don't worry about money
43. Stop withdrawing from my savings account and actually save
45. Chose 10 goals i want to achieve in five years (0/10)
46. Experiment with my appearence and love every part of it
47. Write down all my haunting memories twice. Destroy one copy in a grandiose symbolic way
48. Vote in every election
49. Take part in a protest
50. Argue for something i believe in
51. Go to the opera
52. Visit more of europe
53. Make plans to live in a small american cowboy town, even if i never do
54. Wear a dress instead of jeans
55. Live one day as if it was a film about myself and do something interesting in that day (0/1)
56. Get on the next train
57. be vegan for a month (0/31)
58. Get a crazy haircut not done and immediately regreted by myself but a hairdresser
59. Pick up litter at least five times (0/5)
60. Learn how to change a plug
61. Remember to take my student card with me so I stop missing out on the discount
62. learn how to survive in the desert
63. Learn how to survive in the artic
64. Learn self defence
65. Drink a pint whilst wearing a gorgeous dress
66. Write a film script
67. Direct a short film
68. Make more lesbian/bi friends
69. Have sex under strobe lighting (somehow)
70.Decorate my bedroom with a coloured light bulb, random cushions and fabrics and not care it looks like a brothel. 
71. Learn how to run long distance and then do it for charity
72. Read 2 books a month not related to my course (0/66)
73. Go to the beach much more often
74. Understand the business world and make some wise investments
75. Play the lottery with numbers that mean something
76. Play the lottery with numbers that mean nothing
77.Say i love you, to myself, everyday
78. Say no when i want to.
79.